It is a known fact that every person, lucky or unlucky has an equal share of good and bad experiences. It is only how you take those good and bad experiences in life to be successful and happy or otherwise. I have earlier already given an exposure on this fact. I have seen a lot of people who cannot face negative times in life. One of my friends was so touchy that the day his girlfriend decided to part ways with him, he took to drinks and stopped looking at life positively. It took a lot of effort for all of us to bring him back. Being a touchy and sensitive person he is now finding difficult to get another partner. His typical answer to all whom he meets is that his life is a gone case and he has become hopeless. At most he derives pity out of the people surrounding him and is finding difficult to cope up with life day to day issues.

Another friend of mine on the contrary has been positive enough to handle any such situations. His wife’s sudden death after ten years of happy married life did give him a major setback, but he came back very well. He not only found another partner but also is able to give his children all affection and best treatment they would have got from their mother.

In another incident, a colleague of mine made use of his bad phase in life while he was in hospital recapturing a near fatal accident to write a book on his encounter with death. Not only he became rich with the royalty he also became famous. His positive way of thinking won him a lot of friends who gave him a lot of opportunities when his new life after hospital begun.

Getting positive from negative phases in life is an art which can give you a lot of happiness in life and will go miles in making you successful.

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